I am. Drunk.
andddd on FLOORRR. I dunno why caps happend but it did but I have a few things to talk bout tonight.
The first part is social justicey. Now, I’m not a big fan of a lot of social justice unless it concerns me because I’m human and humans are selfish, and frankly, I do think a lot of social justice involves reading into things to far. But some of it is cool because their is definitely not enough equality in the world and some people are ass holes ( I’m an ass hole too but that’s another level of assholery EVERYTHING IS FLUID)
Ok so this is queer social justice and it’s pretty white bread basic. Like, fuck you. I don’t care how often some gay guy hits on you, it’s NOT ok to call him a “fag.” And frankly, I use the word a lot. I know I shouldn’t. It’s not even “taking it back” when I use it. But when you try to justify that there is a difference between a “gay” and a “fag,” you’re a douchebag. Look, I get it. Sometimes people are REALLY flamboyant, and that CAN be a little obnoxious, but that’s just who they are! Shut the fuck up and let them be. And really, I get that you may have tried to explain to them that you’re “straight” and “arent interested,” but its not helping you’re case when you’re socially inept enough to not understand when people want you to stop talking. Also ripping your shirt off in front of them probably isn’t helping. (I’m only assuming you do this because you say this is a frequent occurance in your drinking.)
Also, stop it. Just because a guy is flamboyant doesn’t make him less of a man. It just makes him a different kind of man. Get your dick out of your hand, and l2 gender spectrum, asshole.
Social Justice is a very weird topic for me. There are definitely points that I can get behind. Like today, when I witnessed 2 cops pull over this tiny old black woman, I was like “You don’t need 2 cops for this. She was barely speeding. This seems racist.” or when assholes mentioned above start making really tactless really ass-holey rape jokes. But then sometimes it seems like it goes too far and goes against itself, when it starts talking about white men. I get that so many white men are douchebags (example: dan cathy). But it makes me sad when people think all white people are like that. But I do get that we sometimes make offensive comments without realizing it because it’s what the media has ingrained us to think was true, and that should be fixed! But it’s really stupid when I see things that are like “Oh hay, white people aren’t allowed to have dreadlocks! They don’t get it and that’s for black people only!” or “Black women shouldn’t straighten their hair that’s whitewashing!” Why aren’t we allowed to blend cultures? Wouldn’t that be a good thing? I mean, we should totally remember where things originated and why, but I think we should definitely share. It’s sort of discriminatory/supremist to say that someone can’t wear their hair in a certain way.
I do know that “can’t we all just get along and make one big happy super-culture where everyone loves each other?” is a huge white ideal, probably because everything would turn out “white” as people view it. But would it be ok if we could find a balance between the two? And I only use “two” because it seems EVERYONE forgets about the Asian counties. Though, granted, a lot of Japanese/Chinese culture shows up in America, I feel. Or maybe that’s just my friends.
I digress, though. I would like us all to get along. I don’t like it when people are screaming at each other (read as: me for being white (cue: oh boo hoo you’re white so sorry for yelling)). I just really don’t think it’s a good way to help the cause. I’m really a fan of “Oh, hey, that’s offensive. I’m not going to get mad at you, but please, let me inform you on why that was offensive and don’t do it again.”
But, I guess I know what I say doesn’t matter, because I’m a white male and I have white and male privileged that I need to check if my opinions don’t match yours. #maybealittlebitter
I do keep my social justice blogs around, to keep me educated and maybe someday I’ll get it. It’s just not clicking yet. But I guess I’m somewhat more informed that cissexual white males? (I know terminology! That’s good, right?)
But other than that one blurb where I yelled at people for being homophobic, tonight has been sort of fun. My roommate has a hot new boyfriend and I’m jealous of her because he’s pretty fucking fine. But he’s straight, oh well. I do sort of have my own guy going on in my life, and that’s nice. I haven’t met him yet, I met him on OKCupid. But he goes to a school right down the road, so I should meet him soon when he gets back. <: I’m excited, he’s nice, and cute.
There’s a girl I’m supposed to keep awake on my bed. -oh, wait, she’s had to throw up. I took her to the bathroom. It feels nice to take care of people, like you’re doing something good. But I’m going to close this up for now because of that.